100 things that made me America’s Dad
#1 I had Sex. It is tough to be a Dad when you do not have a kid. Full credit due for invitro dads, for adoption dads, and stepdads. I am not trying to bash on anybody’s parade. I just did it the old-fashioned way. Had a lot of fun. It is a natural talent.
#2 I got my priorities in the right order. It is not about me anymore. Faith. Wife. Kids. Then me. My hobbies take a back seat. The gym became less important.
#3 I made my marriage a priority.
#4 I made sure I could financially provide. Check income. Track expenses. Budget.
#5 Financially prepared for the future. College. Retirement. Big Purchases. House. Cars. Etc.
#6 I made sure I had a Will.
#7 I made sure I had Life Insurance.
#8 I recognized that I am now a role model. I should at least act like it.
#9 I stayed optimistic about everything. Because pessimism sucks.
#10 Made sure Mom and Dad are on the same team.
#11 My discipline game was on point. Strong, Firm, Reasonable.
#12 I protected my family. From physical harm, spiritual harm, emotional harm, evil.
#13 I am thankful for everything. Where I was born. The people I have met. That guy that gave me an idea. The guy that said I couldn’t. The ones that said I could. To authors. To haters. To supporters. Everything. Everyone.
#14 I provide. A roof, food, and water. Stable home. Education. Unconditional love. Discipline. Consequences.
#15 Not rigid. I stay flexible. Not only in the sack. I’m not going to be rigid in my parenting. Times change. Kids have different personalities. I adjust accordingly.
#16 I shouldered the responsibility. And the blame. All of it. I can handle it.
#17 I set the tone at home. It’s what a leader does.
#18 Made sure our family name means something in our community. How we carry ourselves and how we treat others.
#19 A good home life was more important than faking it on social media.
#20 I made sure our house was a home.
#21 I kicked ass at work. I tried to be the best. Because that is how you succeed.
#22 I prepare my kids for the real world. Age appropriately, of course.
#23 My values and morals are firm. I do not compromise on those.
#24 I put in the effort. Because this is too important to wing it.
#25 I became good at relationships. It’s amazing what being nice, reliable, and offering help will do for your reputation.
#26 Humbled myself because I realized my ego will be my downfall.
#27 Perspective was everything. I learned to put myself in other people’s shoes.
#28 Taught my kids about guns. If I am going to have them, we might as well make sure safety is taught and they do not become forbidden fruit.
#29 I reassessed who I hung out with. I wanted to elevate myself not be held back.
#30 This is who I took advice from. People who actually did what I wanted to do. Good Dads. Good businessmen who built from scratch.
#31 Time. Quality and quantity. I recognized its importance in raising a family. Time is everything.
#32 Let my kids be them. Not what I wish I had been. My Values and morals are firm but I let their personalities and talents bloom.
#33 I read books to my kids. Good bonding. Good teaching moments.
#34 I Play with my kids. Both when it was fun as they get older and when it was boring when they just laid there.
#35 I remain Calm under pressure. Cool heads prevail over emotional drama queens.
#36 I build up my kids’ confidence. Because self-esteem does not result from being crushed all the time.
#37 I give them frequent reality checks. If I’m going to be humbled…so will they. This isn’t a fairy tale.
#38 Created a stable home environment. Rules, routine, predictability.
#39 Realized how much these kids see and absorb…..and modified my behavior.
#40 I hated negativity. Still do.
#41 Vices — not for me. I can say no. I can handle stress. Drugs, alcohol, gambling, porn, tobacco….I make sure my mind is more powerful than temptation.
#42 My secret formula. Hard work + Good Decisions + Faith =Success
#43 Failing does not bother me. In fact, it oddly is fun for me.
#44 Plowed thru fears. Pushed forward. No, what-ifs.
#45 Live without regret. I do not want to be 90 wishing I had been a better dad or tried to make something of myself.
#46 Not afraid to make the unpopular decision because I know it is the right decision.
#47 I do not get painted into corners. If A and B are the only options. I find or create an option C.
#48 I am not afraid to get weird and step outside my comfort zone.
#49 I did not say the things I wanted to say when I was angry. Because I knew I would regret it and once those things are said they never really get taken back.
#50 Loved taking those scary leaps toward opportunities.
#51 Gave my kids independence and freedom as they earned it.
#52 I am not a helicopter dad. But I do verify the trust and freedoms I have allowed are worthy.
#53 Comparison was motivation, not depression. I was never envious, just inspired.
#54 Our house had RULES. Because structure is important.
#55 I refused to sacrifice my family to excel in my career.
#56 I let my kids fail…. a lot.
#57 Became okay with asking for help…. letting go of that ego thing.
#58 Actions were more important than words…. anybody can say the words.
#59 I didn’t make excuses, I just got things done.
#60 Willingness to do what others would not. I found there is much value in doing the things others find demeaning or too hard.
$61 I found the best balance is balancing over longer periods of time. Not day to day or even weekly. More seasonal.
#62 I gave myself reality checks. Check that ego.
#63 I realized how good I have it. And I did my best to soak in that contentment.
#64 Recognized my kids’ genetics and focused on their talents, skills, and personalities.
#65 Respect is important. Earning it & Giving it.
#66 Bravery is important. Super important. Stand up for what I genuinely believe in.
#67 Raising my kids to be fully functional adults.
#68 I used short-term tactics with long-term visions.
#69 Pushed my kids to be better, braver, stronger.
#70 Teach my kids everything I can about life, so they are prepared when they enter the real world without me.
#71 Recognized how important dads’ role is in the family.
#72 I document a lot. It’s great for memories. Reflection. Appreciation.
#73 I controlled my kids’ influences. What they see, experience, hear.
#74 Strong man- Kind heart.
#75 The secret to a good life is simply being happy.
#76 I do my best. Give my best. Because effort is huge!
#77 Realized my wife was insanely important to our life.
#78 I drive our family value home repeatedly. No one and done. Repeat. Repeat. Repeat.
#79 Started my own businesses giving us control of our lifestyle.
#80 Worked close to home because I hated the idea of traffic instead of family.
#81 Made big efforts to be incredibly involved in my kids’ lives. Even the not so fun things.
#82 We switched to homeschooling. More time. More freedom. More control of influences.
#83 Knew my priorities in life. Faith. Family. Work. Friends.
#84 Budgeting was a huge deal. Both of us stayed involved and adhered to it. Neither of us wasted our hard-earned money.
#85 I did not borrow money. No partners. No inheritance. All on my own. No scapegoats. No crutches.
#86 Willing to do unpopular things and go against the grain. Because going along with crowds seems so…. basic.
#87 Cared more about building a net worth than impressing people.
#88 Despite mediocre grammar skills I enjoy writing out my thoughts. Creates clarity and conviction!
#89 Never traveled as a kid, Limited travel as an adult= Strong desire to travel!
#90 Sold a valuable business to the right company at the right time. Luck helps. Luck seems to happen to people who work really hard and do the right things.
#91 Realized having cash and no debt gives you options and freedom and tremendous peace of mind.
#92 Set huge, big goals. Never achieved them totally. But when I came up short, I still did great!
#93 Never afraid of work…even hard work, willing to outwork everyone.
#94 My hobby was my family and work. I excelled at the 2 things I focused most on.
#95 Leaned heavily on my Faith. Put my worries, struggles, anxieties on shoulders bigger than mine.
#96 I knew I did not want to replicate the bad parts of my father …but I did want to replicate the good parts.
#97 Married a girl with the same values and morals as me. With similar goals. With similar ethics. With the same determination to work through bad times and build a good life.
#98 Looked at my ancestry and wanted to become a legend in my family. I wanted our name to really mean something.
#99 Lived a life that if someone wants to dig into it there is nothing to find. Squeaky clean.
#100 Wrote down our family values. This became our compass and roadmap.
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